HCrealms is having problems

[Charaxes]

admin said:

Fair games. Well Ill keep you updated anyway. Ill be back on the Realms soonish.

Yeah, that's what I hear...

Six days away now, isn't?

[ReZourceman]

I believe so. April 2nd as far as I am aware. Wooo.

[Charaxes]

That's what I heard...

[Domi]

So wait. Does this mean you get your old account back, or do you have to start a new one?

[Shel]

His ReZourceman account. I, for one, cannot wait. It hasn't quite been the same without you, Mike.



Here's hoping for a more positive outcome this time around!

[The Hush is BACK]

kitsushel said:

His ReZourceman account. I, for one, cannot wait. It hasn't quite been the same without you, Mike.



Here's hoping for a more positive outcome this time around!

I didn't consider his last tour of duty negative.... he was a lot of fun! ;D

But, agreed that it will be much better with your suspension lifted.

[aquis45]

hush said:

kitsushel said:

His ReZourceman account. I, for one, cannot wait. It hasn't quite been the same without you, Mike.



Here's hoping for a more positive outcome this time around!

I didn't consider his last tour of duty negative.... he was a lot of fun! ;D

But, agreed that it will be much better with your suspension lifted.

I always found it awkward that people were still posting in threads that he started ages ago.

[skeevo666]

aquis45 said:

I always found it awkward that people were still posting in threads that he started ages ago.

You can tell the mods didn't have it in for him, otherwise they would've closed the threads . . .





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[Charaxes]

Very good point, as usual, skeevs.

[Paj Meen Ah]

it's more of a rarity.

[atomsmasher]

rogan said:

aquis45 said:

He visited to see the b-day thread...and was shocked to find out it vanished all of a sudden. He doesn't hang around here much either...but maybe he would if we put in all of our posts!

Actually, I did not visit HCRealms to see my Birthday Well Wishes Thread.

Aquis45 told me about it along with charlesx. I don't go there... I don't lurk there.

As a matter of fact, while at WWLA, I wouldn't even let GroovyBoy use my laptop to go there under his own ID. I told him my laptop wouldn't be used to go there.

Groovy... being Groovy... went there anyway. Now, I guess if I were Aaron I would have banned him from ever using my laptop ever again. It's a good thing I'm not like Aaron. Me and Groovy snuggled all weekend in the same bed as we usually do while at Cons when Gacy can't make it.

Oh... one more thing while I'm doing a correction of wrongs that have been said about me:

Shel posted earlier in this thread here that I've been bad-mouthing HCRealms. Wow. Can she lie any more?!

I've bad-mouthed Aaron and her. That's it. I did get into my little Flame War with Psylocke's Lover, Frontman and Superfro while here. But, that was intentionally done to prove a point.

Hell, I know for a fact that Rock810 even told/warned all three of those guys to stop posting here in response to my egging them on. He told me directly while at a PreRelease a couple or so weekends ago that he knew exactly what my intentions were the whole time and tried to prevent it from escalating like it did by telling them to let it go.

But, I knew they wouldn't because they behaved exactly how I would have if someone were bad-mouthing me in a public forum. We can smell our own as the old saying goes. I knew what buttons to push.

Anyway, I'd like to see it shown where I actually trashed talked 'Realms. I never did. I wouldn't. I've been on there since 2002 bleeding sweat and tears there. I've done nothing but positive things there. Sure, every once and awhile I'll say something offensive to 1% of the people there, but no more so than BudPalmer or JacinB already do on a regular basis. But, they don't get WPs because they are not on Aaron's shit list.

But, whatever... I found out at WWLA this past weekend that the number of people who truly think Aaron is a tool and would do some pretty nasty stuff to him numbers just below 50 people. Of course, that is about everyone I talked to who know him/dealt with him.

Now... normally... I would have leapt to his defense... but, those days are long over. As a matter of fact, the reason these people never told me this before was because they knew Aaron and I were friends. Now that those days are over I am told everything.

And, for any of you out there who still think I wouldn't do anything anymore for HCR there is this:

I told Rock810 at the PreRelease that if he ever wanted me to help manage things there I would gladly do so behind the proverbial curtains or under his name. I made tons of lasting friends on 'Realms. Just because there are 5-8 people there who I feel have ruined things lately doesn't mean I would abandon my real friends.

Now, I just talk to my friends from there on the phone or through emails or Instant Messaging or at Cons.

And, since I'm clearing the air...

There seems to be some misconceptions about what's going on in my life right now. Let's make it public since I've never been a close-mouthed or secretive person-- ever!


Back in 2003 I found out my (now-ex) wife was sleeping with one of my good friends (We'll call him Matt Unger).

Her and I legally separated in April of 2003, but we continued to live together until she was able to find an apartment OR we could work out our downward spiralling marriage.

In the meantime and unbeknownest to me, she was still sleeping with Matt behind my back.

I found out at the end of May of 2003 when I went to turn off our computer and found her email account open and full of emails from Matt. They were all of both of them talking about their rendevous behind my back and their love for each other.

When she moved out in July of 2003 I called her to set up an overnight visit with our son who was only 6 months old at the time. This is what I was told by her when I requested an overnight weekend or weekday with him:



She then went on to tell me in the same phone call that if I sought legal custody for him that she would sooner kill our son than have to share custody.

I went to Children & Youth to report this and got this answer:



Of course, about 5-6 months later there was a ton of national headlines about a mother who did kill her children. Wow. Go figure. Some Dumb Bimbo At C&Y was wrong.

I even reported the incident to my divorce attorney. He told me:



My response was:





Needless to say, he didn't last many more months as my attorney until I fired his arse.

I even went to the Captain of the Troop M-Bethlehem Barracks soon after she told me this. Here is what a Captain of the Pennsylvania State Police told me when I told him about the threat to my son's welfare:



Great. Children & Youth, a Captain in the PA State Police and an attorney don't care.

Needless to say, I started cow-tailing even more to her crazy and insane demands after that for fear that if I didn't she would hurt or kill him. I gave her whatever she wanted. I never broached the subject of overnight stays again and always went to her place to see him. I tried everything possible to prevent her from having a reason to go all unbalance and kill/hurt him.

After many months of this, it got worse. She kept taking more and more away from me spending time with him. It was only years later that I realized she was doing it because she was afraid that the more time he spent with his daddy then when he got older he would want to live with me instead of her. Being as unbalanced as she is, there is no way she would be able to take losing having him around her 24-7. She would probably kill herself and take him along with her in some insane attempt to ensure he is with her even in death.

After it got that worse I filed for custody. That's when the crap hit the fan. She did everything she could to make me look like a bad father.

One time I had him for a few hours at my place I noticed a bruising in his butt crack while I was changing his diaper. He was only a year and a half at this time. I had a friend with me the whole time to act as a witness and had him look at it. It was a fresh bruise (probably a few hours old). We both knew that she was trying to set me up saying I sexually abused him during my visitation. But, luckily, she didn't know I always had a witness with me during all my visitations with my son when she wasn't there.

When I called her on it she turned white as a ghost and claimed she had no idea how it happened. Yeah, right...

Another time... she called my cellphone and did a hang-up call. She knew my cellphone had Caller ID and my home phone didn't. She wanted me to call her back to see what she wanted and then was going to call the police to say I harassed her and had proof because my number would come up on her Caller ID.

I didn't fall for it and instead called my attorney and had him call her attorney to have him call her to see why she did the hang-up call on my phone. Her claim to fame is that the phone must have dialed itself. It's funny how a flip cellphone can flip itself open and then dial a number.

Our custody battle was ugly for over 3 years. Her claims get getting more and more ridiculous. But, sadly, in Lehigh County of PA, the court system is gender biased towards women. Especially when a man is the other party.

It wasn't until March of 2006 that she did the most perfect plan that even I have to admire.

For the past couple or so months leading up to March 2006 she was having someone come into my home (she still had a key and knew the garage door pass code) and using my wireless laptop to access the internet. Neddless to say, I even later learned that some of my posts on HCRealms weren't done by me. They were harmless ones, but worded enough that it would seem like me. I never caught them because I never looked at past posts of mine.

Anyway, she then created a Profile on some Adult Porn Site and uploaded pictures of her naked self. After only 2-3 days of doing this she called the police saying that she found them and an investigation revealed it was my laptop. The police didn't even bother to question her how she was able to find the website so quickly. Especially after she admitted she doesn't even check out porn sites.

The clincher that she did it was that only 3 days after she went to the police she filed to relocate with our son back to her hometown in Pittsburgh, PA. She had been wanting to move back there since we met and married. She knew there was no way that any sane Judge would grant her petition to move our son over 5 hours away without me being some sort of monster. Hence, she did what she did to make me look like an ogre.

My attorney filed the appropriate paperwork to fight the relocation. After thinking about what she did and how far she was now willing to go my concern for my son's safety greatened. I even thought maybe she would have me killed. I began sleeping with a gun under my pillow at nights for fear that someone would pay me a visit during the night.

But, ultimately, I wasn't worried about my health. I've lived a good life and experienced a lot more than any human being could experience and/or do. I was worried about my son's life and safety.

I told my attorney after about 2-3 months and just prior to Origins 2006 to offer her this:

I would stop the fight to avoid her relocating; I would stop seeking custody; I would let her decide when and if she wanted me to see our son; and I would pay her $400/month in Child Support. I had been paying $990/month prior to this to her. Let me say that this number was ridiculous. Especially taking into account she had a job that paid $40,000.00/year and had full medical and benefits. But, I gave in and paid the amount she wanted because that's what I did with her-- gave in.

While at Origins 2006 my attorney called me and told me my ex's counter offer was this:

She wanted my name off our son's Birth Certificate.

I spent nearly 5 months talking to family and friends and my attorney about this. It all boiled down to me truthfully answering this question:

Do you truly feel she will hurt or kill your son if you continue to seek custody or don't do what she wants?

In my heart I knew she would.

I made the ultimate sacrifice any father could do to see his own son is happy and safe and has a chance to live his life.

I signed off on the Birth Certificate.

As the Fates are my witness, it was the most difficult and painful decision I ever had to make in my life. Until the day I die I know I am going to second guess myself. I know I am going to worry about him every second of the days.

This occurred in November of 2006. When his birthday came in mid-January 2007 it hit me even harder. Wondering how he was. Wondering if he missed me. Wondering if I made the right decision...

There you have it. That's what's been going on in my life the past few years. So, if I've come across as tempermental and moody and offensive I can only say there is the main reason.

Aaron and Shel knew this. I told them months ago. Even Groovy and Gacy and a few others who I consider friends knew about this.

Sadly, I guess I was wrong to confide in Aaron and Shel. It's nice to know that in my hour of need and desolation I found out who my true friends were.





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ro......man......damn......damn......you actually made a tear fall.....damn......thats f'ed up

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[atomsmasher]

jklantern said:

The internet is for PORN!
The internet is for PORN!
Why you think the net was born?
PORN! PORN! POOOOOOOOOOOORN!

Grab your d1ck and twirl a bit to
PORN PORN PORN

[Charaxes]

atomsmasher said:

Grab your d1ck and twirl a bit to
PORN PORN PORN

Dude, this is Rule3... you can say "dick" if you wanna.

[skeevo666]

Dick
Prick
Cock
One-Eyed Wonder Weasel


They're all good!



and for equal rights representation


Pussy
Cunt
Cooze
Fish Taco

;D






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[No Wow]

I love how ck is like THE two letters you need to include if you are making a new word for the penis.

[JKL]

chair2 said:

I love how ck is like THE two letters you need to include if you are making a new word for the penis.

Wang
Schlong
Bobbly Bits
Rod
Cap'n One Eye'd Willy
Cellular Phone...